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Article Highlights:
- Whites and blacks don’t speak the same language when they talk about racism
- For many minorities, racism is less about overt hostility and more about bias
- One sociologist calls it “racism without racists” and says “we are all in this game”
- A new conversation on race can start with three phrases that often crop up